Random Thought

It would be hurting to hurt your loved ones. but does the same feeling
lies in their heart.

A busy life will price the time shared for friends……But then how some
people find time to make it up. In fact being busy is a part of life when at work.

Shouldn't that be in our mind to find time for everything.

Heard from my aunty, ‘Only Dead man finds no time’

How factful……yes only he doesn’t find time for anything. How true few had dead
in their mind first burying all their loved ones. how sad……

What are we going to take with us while going. We are not going to take but we are going
to leave something in the memories of loved ones. Should tat be a nice thing to relish always.

Do all people think the same……… na……

broken glasses or broken hearts will never bond, how true in my case atleast……

I realize slowly……and realizing still………

I’m not the only affected many would be affected because of these happenings. Many in
the world will be like that.

Now my inner thought tells something to me that I must prove worthy of myself to others.
People will feel that they have lost a good relationship. This is not out of any grudge feeling
but an outburst of agony. Music is the only choice I must revel in……
and stick to those who cares for me and respect me for the only fact that I love them……

Wont tat be a good choice to make as it will not affect both sides.

Be a Chameleon

Speaking of a chameleon itself would creat a feeling of frustration and goose bumps...ewwwwk!!
And, What a sentence is that? how could be. How can we change to situations.It's form of Betrayal.Oh! God no never.
Look into the other side of it.I got another perspective. As my friend made me realize that adapting the characteristics of chameleon to certain situations will reduce unnecessary stress. It avoids losing of courage.
See how a chameleon changes its attributes, when the environment changes. It wishes to survive, with its God given characteristics.
There is a saying if God closes a door, he will soon reveal another door of opportunity. So when we loose something we must try to adapt accordingly to the situation and try to look forward for the next BIG thing. It would be difficult to get consoled about the lost thing, but this would definitely oil your eyes making the success steps out of view.........
Just a thought, and a comparison i got from my friend, who told this title sentence.....not to mentin his name. His 4 year old son cannot hear, listen or speak. He has got the cool head. But how many of us?? He took this as a God given Problem sorry Challenge.The couple handles this situation with atmost confidence level and his wife is damn sure of their child getting normal soon. He too had told me that he will make him sing before me one day. God this must definitely happen
Who ever sees this message, kindly make a prayer for that child, collective prayers are definitely be fruitful.
And also think about the title message!! it would rather be difficult for me initially. It's not like 'oorukku ubhadesam', hmm i intend to keep myself cool headed, but sometimes it boils in *SIGH*

Dumb Not Dumber

I went thro an article in 'ANANDA VIKATAN', it was about Mr.Stephen Hawkins. I was very much
impressed with him. For those who need to know about him, here a brief introduction....Mr.Stephen Hawkins is the one who wrote 'The Brief History of Time', it was all about the big bang theory ( I don’t wish to blabber anything about this theory, as far as i know i have jus read about that in physics). I had already known about this great personality, but to my shocking and surprise, he has lost all his senses i mean the five senses, he cannot walk, talk, sans vision, sans hearing and does things with a wink of his right eye, the pulses of which controls a computer through a chip in his wheel chair. He is
explaining things with the help of a pc and this chip. What relation does this makes to my blog........we are being bestowed with all the good senses, but still we are cribbing around for what we dint get. we don’t know how to use the existing systems........itself....cant we do anything under the sun, is it that impossible to do even our tasks. People think of…..
If a person who cannot do the normal things we do can do extra ordinary things….where are we not even ready to do our normal routines……….

I would sometimes think why do people stuff their ideologies and thoughts on others.
Even i was like one earlier, but sooner i started realising, that person opposite to me is not dumb and they too have the chemistry of thinking process. So it is always good to give suggestions alone. It is like humiliating what others feel. This happens mostly in case of FEW parents (not all) who had failed to achieve their dreams, they strive hard to somehow push their children to pursue what they like and the child take it up seriously and does the job to satify to see a big smile of proud on their parent's face. But here the individuality of the self has been lost. Their dreams will vanish into points unresolved.It is always better to allow the children go in their way provided they do not take a dirty path. I do have a doubt why people are not giving importance for others inner feelings and if we feel empathy rather than sympathy, we can create a change in the relationship what we have.

Human Will Power has no bounds. It's well known fact that confidence is one of the driving force for all the activities we do. Lacking confidence will definitely ditch one person. He himself will not realise where he is. Personally me and my friend felt, that a thought we make for doing a negative act will take all our fullest will power. Say for instance, when you are likely to get affected by fever and a thought strikes your mind, ' i'm going to suffer badly', this kind of thought will definitely have a psychological effect on you by which you suffer still worse than you will be. But have ever such thoughts have budded when we think anything to do good!!! it's might be a rare case.. I had an opportunity to have a look at Swami Vivekananda's quotes, which stated "What ever you think, that you will be. If you think yourself weak, weak you will be; if you think yourself strong; strong you will be", (thanks to my friend for forwarding such a thought). This clearly states that we will be what we think. This positive thought process will definitely have a good impact on us. If we are struck by fever and if we continue to say i'm worse it will not get cured. If we think i'm getting better we are not going to the worse side of it but getting better. this is an instance, if we do all our activities with the same thought we can face the world with difference. Take up all your activities with your fullest WILL that you could do it in the best way.