I would sometimes think why do people stuff their ideologies and thoughts on others.
Even i was like one earlier, but sooner i started realising, that person opposite to me is not dumb and they too have the chemistry of thinking process. So it is always good to give suggestions alone. It is like humiliating what others feel. This happens mostly in case of FEW parents (not all) who had failed to achieve their dreams, they strive hard to somehow push their children to pursue what they like and the child take it up seriously and does the job to satify to see a big smile of proud on their parent's face. But here the individuality of the self has been lost. Their dreams will vanish into points unresolved.It is always better to allow the children go in their way provided they do not take a dirty path. I do have a doubt why people are not giving importance for others inner feelings and if we feel empathy rather than sympathy, we can create a change in the relationship what we have.

Human Will Power has no bounds. It's well known fact that confidence is one of the driving force for all the activities we do. Lacking confidence will definitely ditch one person. He himself will not realise where he is. Personally me and my friend felt, that a thought we make for doing a negative act will take all our fullest will power. Say for instance, when you are likely to get affected by fever and a thought strikes your mind, ' i'm going to suffer badly', this kind of thought will definitely have a psychological effect on you by which you suffer still worse than you will be. But have ever such thoughts have budded when we think anything to do good!!! it's might be a rare case.. I had an opportunity to have a look at Swami Vivekananda's quotes, which stated "What ever you think, that you will be. If you think yourself weak, weak you will be; if you think yourself strong; strong you will be", (thanks to my friend for forwarding such a thought). This clearly states that we will be what we think. This positive thought process will definitely have a good impact on us. If we are struck by fever and if we continue to say i'm worse it will not get cured. If we think i'm getting better we are not going to the worse side of it but getting better. this is an instance, if we do all our activities with the same thought we can face the world with difference. Take up all your activities with your fullest WILL that you could do it in the best way.