I would sometimes think why do people stuff their ideologies and thoughts on others.
Even i was like one earlier, but sooner i started realising, that person opposite to me is not dumb and they too have the chemistry of thinking process. So it is always good to give suggestions alone. It is like humiliating what others feel. This happens mostly in case of FEW parents (not all) who had failed to achieve their dreams, they strive hard to somehow push their children to pursue what they like and the child take it up seriously and does the job to satify to see a big smile of proud on their parent's face. But here the individuality of the self has been lost. Their dreams will vanish into points unresolved.It is always better to allow the children go in their way provided they do not take a dirty path. I do have a doubt why people are not giving importance for others inner feelings and if we feel empathy rather than sympathy, we can create a change in the relationship what we have.